Across Australia’s customer service industry, an alarming 87% of frontline staff have reported experiencing verbal abuse in the past year alone.

With customer aggression peaking around busy shopping periods like Christmas and Easter, we’re seeing a concerning trend at the coalface: the traditional ‘customer is always right’ mantra is taking a toll on employee mental health.

The current landscape

A recent survey of more than 4600 retail workers reported 87% of workers experienced verbal abuse from a customer, 12.5% reported physical violence, and 52% said the same customer acted abusively or violently on more than one occasion (Shop, Distributive and Allied Employees Association, 2023)

These statistics aren’t just numbers – they represent real trauma experienced by frontline workers.

Why customer aggression is rising

The escalation in customer aggression reflects a perfect storm of societal pressures and systemic changes. At its core, rising inflation and cost of living pressures are creating a baseline of financial anxiety that often manifests as decreased emotional regulation.

This financial stress is compounded by the lingering effects of the pandemic, which has fundamentally altered how we interact with each other. The collective trauma of recent years has depleted our ‘surge capacity’ – our ability to adapt to stressful situations. Throw our modern digital lives into the mix with social media normalising confrontational behaviour and instant gratification, and we’ve developed unreasonable expectations for service timeframes.

The service industry faces its own perfect storm of technological change, compliance issues, staff shortages, reduced training time, and high turnover rates. Fewer experienced staff handling increasingly complex situations, alongside longer wait times and service inconsistencies, creates a volatile environment where customer frustrations can quickly escalate.

Understanding trauma in customer service

Many organisations fail to recognise that repeated exposure to customer aggression can constitute trauma. As highlighted by SAMHSA (2014), trauma results from “an event, series of events, or set of circumstances that is experienced by an individual as physically or emotionally harmful… and has lasting adverse effects on the individual’s functioning.”

This definition is particularly relevant when considering that the Australian Institute of Health and Welfare (2022) reports 75% of Australian adults have already experienced a traumatic event in their life. Customer service workers may therefore be managing both previous trauma and ongoing exposure to aggressive interactions.

How can organisations create a supportive environment for traumatised employees and leaders? 

“Recognise that trauma is unique to the individual who experiences it,” says Transitioning Well’s Vanessa Miles. “Two people can experience the same traumatic event – one might experience what we could call ‘appropriate distress’ while the other might develop a traumatic response. There are factors that influence different responses.  One important consideration to be aware of is that social support is protective when people have these experiences.”

It can also be helpful to do a risk assessment says Vanessa. Think about where in your workplace is there the potential for trauma to occur. This may be obvious in some settings – eg. ambulance. But for example a vet , one might assume it’s euthanasia that is distressing. This can be true, but human interactions, for example when a person can’t afford lifesaving treatment for their pet – that’s another source of distress.  

So organisations can ensure they are well equipped to link their people to appropriate support when a distressing event occurs.

A three-tiered approach to protection

1. The leadership layer

Leaders must be educated about trauma-informed practices to:

• Recognise signs of trauma exposure in their teams
• Understand that trauma affects people differently
• Create psychologically safe environments where employees feel supported
• Implement proper reporting and response protocols for aggressive incidents

2. The customer layer

Organisations need robust systems to:

• Set clear boundaries with customers about acceptable behaviour
• Empower employees to disengage from threatening situations
• Provide de-escalation training
• Create physical environments that prioritise employee safety

3. The self-care layer

Employees need support to:

• Recognise their own stress reactions
• Understand that stress responses (fight, flight, freeze, or fawn) are normal reactions to abnormal situations
• Access appropriate mental health resources
• Develop personal resilience strategies

Implementing trauma-informed practices

A trauma-informed workplace acknowledges that:

• Each person is doing the best they can with the resources they have
• Stress reactions manifest across emotional, physical, and cognitive domains
• Support needs to be stepped up when distress persists beyond a month
• Re-traumatisation must be limited wherever possible

Moving forward

The rise in customer aggression is a significant workplace health and safety concern that requires a trauma-informed response. By understanding that trauma affects people differently and implementing comprehensive support systems, organisations can better protect their employees’ mental health and wellbeing.

It’s important to note that while experiences of traumatic events are common, with proper support and protective factors in place, most people don’t develop ongoing mental health conditions. The role of organisational leaders is to ensure that those protective factors are robust and accessible.

The investment in trauma-informed practices isn’t just about meeting duty of care obligations or, in other words, ticking a box. Mentally healthy workplaces allow people to bring their whole selves and be valued for who they are, even in the face of increasing customer aggression.

To find out more about how Transitioning Well can help your organisation, see our Learning Catalogue.

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A Guide For Leaders

Organisations have been slow to understand the realities of the menopause transition for women in the workplace.

It was only in 2023 that the word ‘perimenopause’ was first spoken in federal parliament by Senator Larissa Waters. This year, journalist Imogen Crump went viral for breaking off mid-sentence on live TV to apologise for a hot flush – a first for national television. These watershed moments highlight both how far we’ve come and how far we still have to go in addressing this crucial workplace issue.

Against this backdrop of growing awareness, a trend has emerged: women are retiring approximately five years earlier than men, with a median retirement age of 55.8 years compared to 60.3 years for men. While financial factors are often the primary driver, there’s a significant yet under-discussed reason: menopause. 

Women in Australia experience higher rates of financial insecurity than men, with significantly lower superannuation balances on average and now represent the fastest-growing demographic among the homeless population.

“Menopause is a significant life transition for women everywhere,” says Thea O’Connor, wellbeing and productivity advisor and coach. “When we equip women with education about what to expect, and managers with the tools to support those who are struggling with symptoms, we can shift the dial on women’s career trajectories and financial wellbeing into the future.”

The intersection of this natural transition at a time when women are at a pivotal time in their careers presents both challenges and opportunities for Australian workplaces.

The Menopausal Transition: A Workplace Challenge

Menopause typically occurs between ages 45-55, coinciding with peak career years. Research indicates that approximately 80% of women experience menopausal symptoms, with 25% reporting significant impacts on their daily lives. These symptoms can include:

• Difficulty concentrating and memory issues
• Fatigue and sleep disturbances
• Hot flushes and sweating
• Anxiety and mood changes
• Physical discomfort

The Numbers

Recent data paints a clear picture of the challenge

Legal Framework and Considerations

Recent legal cases have highlighted the importance of addressing menopause in the workplace:

1. Anti-Discrimination Legislation
   • Sex Discrimination Act 1984 (Cth)
   • Age Discrimination Act 2004 (Cth)
   • Fair Work Act 2009 (Cth)
2. Relevant Case Law

1. Richter v. Corporation X (2022): Awarded $175,000 for failure to make reasonable adjustments
2. Thompson v. Company Y (2021): Established menopause as a protected characteristic under sex discrimination laws
3. Work Health and Safety Obligations

1. Model WHS Laws require employers to manage health and safety risks
2. Duty of care extends to managing menopause-related risks
3. Requirement for consultation with workers about health and safety matters

The New Approach To Supporting Menopause In The Workplace

Transitioning Well was engaged by the Victorian government to deliver a pilot program on menopause support to its employees and managers. There was high engagement in both the coaching sand workshops, indicating a high demand for a program of this nature. 

The coaching program was delivered by a national team of registered psychologists. The program emphasised confidentiality and comfort, creating a safe space for participants to discuss challenges, develop strategies, and leverage the strengths associated with menopause.

The workshops were delivered by our partner, Thea O’Connor and tailored to both a leader and employee audience.

Program Scope:

• 64 employees received individual coaching
• 49 managers underwent specialised training
• 93 total program participants

Key Results:

• High engagement rates across all program components
• Significant increase in manager confidence
• Positive participant feedback
• Creation of sustainable support systems

Feedback:

“This program should be offered again in my workplace. I would encourage all the women I know in my age range to participate.” – Coaching Participant

“It is fantastic to raise awareness around how going through the menopause transition can impact women and how they work.” – Manager Workshop Participant

Creating Menopause-Friendly Workplaces

Practical Solutions for HR Professionals

Policy Development

• Create specific menopause workplace policies
• Include menopause in existing health and wellbeing frameworks
• Develop flexible working arrangements
• Establish clear accommodation request procedures

Workplace Adjustments

• Temperature control options
• Access to quiet spaces
• Adequate bathroom facilities
• Flexible break times
• Remote work options
• Adjustable uniforms and dress codes

Training and Education

• Manager awareness training
• Employee resource groups
• Health and wellbeing workshops
• Open dialogue initiatives
• Peer support networks
• Online learning modules

Support Systems

• Employee assistance programs
• Mentoring programs
• Return-to-work support
• Occupational health referrals
• EAP and mental health support

Action Steps for HR Professionals

1. Audit current policies and support systems
2. Develop a menopause workplace policy
3. Implement training programs for managers
4. Create open channels for feedback
5. Monitor and measure outcomes
6. Regular policy review and updates

As Australia’s workforce continues to age, addressing menopause-related early retirement isn’t just about equality—it’s about business sustainability. Leaders and HR professionals are uniquely positioned to create supportive environments that enable women to continue their careers through menopause and beyond.

To find out more about how Transitioning Well can help your organisation, see our Learning Catalogue.

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Long hours, unrealistic expectations, favouritism, poor communication, blame culture.    

Most of us have known a leader who delivers results but creates a toxic and unhealthy work environment, creating a situation where people dread coming to work.  

There are many factors that can lead to an unhealthy work environment, but one of the most challenging situations arises when the leader themselves is the cause.  

While effective leadership can inspire, motivate, and drive success, a toxic leader can have the opposite effect, negatively impacting employees’ mental health and wellbeing.    

When leaders engage in bullying, harassment, or discrimination, it can lead to a climate of fear, intimidation, and mistrust. Employees may feel unsafe, undervalued, and isolated, leading to decreased job satisfaction, increased stress, and even potentially exacerbate a mental health condition.  

Recognising a toxic leader  

The first step in addressing this issue is to recognise that a problem exists. This can be difficult, as leaders often hold significant power and influence. However, there are several key signs that a leader might be creating a toxic environment: 

• Bullying and harassment: Verbal abuse, isolation, discrimination. 

• Micromanagement and control: Excessive monitoring, blame culture, lack of recognition. 

• Poor communication: Lack of clarity, frequent changes, favouritism. 

• Unrealistic expectations: Excessive workload, unrealistic deadlines, lack of support. 

• Hostile environment: Negative atmosphere, lack of respect, stifling creativity. 

• Lack of trust and support: Breaching trust, lack of support, culture of fear. 

Furthermore, toxic leaders often engage in micromanagement, which can stifle creativity, limit autonomy, and erode culture. When employees feel constantly monitored and controlled, they may become demotivated, disengaged, and less likely to take initiative. 

In addition to its negative impact on individual employees, toxic leadership can also have detrimental effects on organisations as a whole. High turnover rates, decreased productivity, diminished organisational trust and a damaged reputation are just some of the potential outcomes.  Toxic work environments can also contribute to a decline in mental health, increased healthcare costs, and a loss of productivity on a national level. 

Untreated mental health issues cost Australian businesses an estimated $10.9 billion annually in lost productivity alone. That’s $4.7 billion in absenteeism, $6.1 billion in presenteeism and $146 million in compensation claims, according to a PwC and Beyond Blue report on mental health in the workplace. 

Leaders can’t be solely to blame for creating toxic environments. In the corporate world, it’s often assumed if you are good at your job, you’ll be good at leading a team too. Individuals are given more responsibility and a team to lead with little to no training on how to do it well. 

To create a healthy and supportive work environment, it’s essential for organisations to build strong leadership capability and hold leaders accountable for their actions. This includes providing training and development opportunities for leaders to help them develop the skills and competencies needed to create an inclusive and mentally healthy workplace. 

There are now legal implications for organisations that fail to mitigate psychosocial hazards.  As such, organisations should have clear policies and procedures to address bullying, harassment, and other psychosocial hazards. These policies should be enforced consistently and transparently to ensure employees feel safe and protected. 

Of course, addressing toxic leaders shouldn’t be up to individuals to fix it. On an organisational level, it’s essential to address the underlying causes of harmful behaviour, but employees also have a role to play. By speaking up about toxic behaviour, seeking support, and advocating for a healthier workplace, employees can help to address the issue and create a more positive culture. 

We know that good leadership is very protective and can shape the experiences and outcomes of their people. So, it’s essential for organisations to prioritise strong leadership capability, ensure they are accountable, and create a culture that values wellbeing. By investing in these areas, organisations can create a positive, productive work environment that benefits everyone. 

Are you investing in your leaders?

Support for your people

We offer support for your leaders across all stages of their journey – whether it’s stepping into their first leadership role, progressing through subsequent leadership roles, or transitioning into the complexities of leading at an executive level. Our coaching is tailored to help leaders navigate the complexities of leadership, ensuring your people maximise their potential and succeed in their new role.

We collaborate closely with your organisation to align with its needs, goals and outcomes, and provide your leaders with the frameworks, tools, and strategies they need to grow and succeed, while navigating the demands that come with life and work. 

To find out more about how Transitioning Well can help your organisation, see our Learning Catalogue.

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